I would tell her to leave. You should stay in the house. Pack her bags for her and toss her out.
Get advice from your lawyer as to what you can and can't do. Can you change the locks?


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014