Vdub- we all get it. I would just use this thought to challenge yourself:
If you can't detach from WW when you know it is a requirement to give your M any chance...how can you expect your WW to detach from OM in the same circumstances?
My mantra has always been to ACT WITH THE CHARACTER YOU WISH SHE HAD. If you can't do it then this love triangle will continue.
It's ok to feel weak, as long as you ACT strong.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
