Good idea - I have worried about this happening too.

But now with the cat potentially out of the bag - what can you do? Kids are smart (so very smart) - if she read everything, she would see how hard and honorably you have fought for your family.

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015