Sandi, I was reading through Ben2010's posts and I saw something you posted there.
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Originally Posted By: sandi2 If it helps, I was very torn and confused. I changed my mind a thousand times a day. Now what may seem odd is that it was not my LBH that talked me into staying in the M. Remember, he could do nothing right, in my eyes. It was, however, total strangers who got my attention and told me the truth of what was happening to me.....and what was needed to get through the mess I was in.
If you don't mind me asking what total strangers? Here from the board?
Miman2, yes, the strangers were those board members who talked really straight to me. Thankfully, I had some wise people coaching me. I will forever be grateful they came to the rescue of a WW.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!