Alpha - rollercoasting #3

[alpha99]

I'm just thinking out loud here. Although my wife has some justification in how she feels about me right now, I wonder whether she is holding onto her anger as a means of justifying what she is doing to our family at the moment. She was nice with me for a few days as her new house was nearing being ready to be moved into, but when my son was ill she wouldn't allow me to go to the hospital initially. Strange. If this were the case, I wonder what I could do to enable her to lose her anger. My current 'method' is to use LRT. I am trying to get a parenting plan in place (see above). Do you think it is just time alone away from her that will give her the opportunity to calm down. All of this assumes that I am right about why she is so angry with me. Yes, I made recordings (she threatened me with lies). Yes, I have threatened to expose her A at work (but have not done so). Yes, I have pleaded/begged and done all the stupid things I shouldn't have done. Her thinking appears illogical but at least she called me today, and at least she heard what I had to say, even if she didn't agree with most of it.