As ever you're right Toots. I need to stop going down cheeseless tunnels. The thing is OM is older, appears unable to commit from what W says, and would seem unlikely given his older age to want to take on 2 young kids. Unfortunately I think the attachment side of things comes from my W, given the few things she's mentioned. As affair was exposed W said OM was changing jobs 6-8 weeks later. Well, it's been about 6 weeks now. If given what she said about that is true, and that he was moving away as well I believe, and also W has just rented a place that surely has a minimal lease term, then pretty soon she may find herself wihout OM and sat alone at night with just 2 kids for company. Throw in her poor (to this point) financial management and the fact I don't see her parents accepting OM (they're catholics, plus I think she's told them it's over anyway) she may find things getting a little rough. We'll see.

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BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6