Alpha, I think the parenting plan is all important right now. And I would just keep that central and stop your mind when it starts going onto 'exposure.'

Lobbing in a grenade like exposure at work is going to work against agreeing a reasonable parenting plan. And whilst you might hope it would destabilise the A. The fact is, things probably need to run their own course in their own time.

So, I think you're right not to go down that avenue. Best to focus on agreeing a plan for the kids that works for everyone, and focusing on you and them. I thought your email was fine, and hope your W comes back with a reasonable response.

Have a good day Alpha!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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