Be careful as you don't want his emotional roller coaster to become yours. You have worked hard to find your independent emotional foundation, don't let him come along and shatter that. Just keep reminding yourself that he is not done with his journey yet and until he is, he is of no use to you!
H: 48 Me: 47 Married: 19 yrs T: 20 yrs 2 teen-Ds and S H-MLC (started 2012) and H-Unemployed (11/2014) D-Bomb: 2/2015 H left country but hasn't moved out: 7/2015 I filed: 7/2015
