For the Newcomer LBH who has a wayward wife Part 2

[Joe46]

See this is where the Divorce Busting gets confusing!! Wives send their husbands signals that they don't understand. After sending these signals for a long time, the wife finds another man. Than we come here and are told to avoid contact with them. Don't text, call, write or try to talk to them. So now the wife has more ammunition to say " I'm glad I left". Or we help push them out the door by doing all these things. I am suppose to validate my wife's feelings, but I can't because we are not suppose to talk about relationship things. Or I am suppose to DETACH. I wonder if this is really Divorce Busting or Divorce prepping??? I feel like the things I have been doing lately are pushing my wife out the door. I get the feeling she is stock piling money and spring cleaning so she is ready to leave.