I have read through all of Cadet's posts. Great stuff.

Although I am not 100% certain there is not another man, i do not think so. Her father did that to her mother and she has always vowed and pleaded for honestly, especially related to fidelity. I do not think she would expose the kids to that after what her family went through. Again, I don't know for certain, but there are no signs of that what so ever...but I would say that where she is emotionally right now, she could be vulnerable to that.


Me: 44
Her: 42
T: 22, M: 20
D:18, S:16, S:11
Sep: 6 months in 2002
Sep again: March 15, 2015 (5 months)
WAW talk again: January 21, 2019