I believe what triggered my wife to start acting this way was when her youngest son from her first marriage graduated. It was at that time that she began to change. I saw anger in her. She would talk about herself as being a bad girl. She always pointed out when other men would notice her. She shared these things as trying to hurt me. Her self esteem was very low. She began to talk about things that she normally did not. Her swears words became worse. She acted like she did not care about anything anymore.
The sad thing is our two younger children spent all summer at home playing video games during the day. There were alot of days that she would sit in her room all day doing her work. I started getting texts from younger D that her mom just sits and there on her computer. I was 30 miles away at work. This is before we moved to town. It felt like she did not want to do alot with them because of me. It was weird.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"