Feeling a lot better and in control now, the question comes to mind again: should I expose wife's A at her work place? Previously I had feared the consequences but now I don't feel like that. I feel like turning the tables from all the suffering I've endured. Not so much do I have revenge in mind, just a clearing of the air, getting the truth out. Is it worth it though?
If it can provide a consequence and closure you should. Should you just be a snivering, suffering victim? No.