It's amazing how when she realized I was no longer sure that I wanted to continue that the spew stopped cold and she suddenly became respectful and warmer.

This. Yes.

I know people come here in pain and shock. It's unreasonable to expect people to be ready and willing to have a backbone and drop the rope (even faking it at first) and stand up for themselves as soon as they get here. But, man, how I wish they were ready ... because this, Rzr, is TEXTBOOK pursuit and distance.

Confidence and decisiveness in a man is freakin' smokin' HOT! And, yep. I betcha $5 to a hole in a donut that sandi is spot-on. W is gonna start playing games to see if you're all talk and hot air. And it could also be because - gasp! - your confidence and no-BS attitude is ATTRACTIVE to her.

I could be wrong, but I think I'm hearing a new Rzr here! Anddddd ... I like it! smile


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014