U turn. I don't have any easy answers about LOGISTICS. But I have one question for you- why are you even talking to her?

She's not your W. She's not going to be reasonable. I would think of her as nothing more than a robot that will screw another man, spew at you relentlessly, and then use your emotions to avoid consequences. She will do this every time you push the push the big red button called "having a conversation". Why keep pushing the button expecting different results?

I get it. It is devastating to realize. But now that the facts are 100% clear to you, act according to those facts. Nothing you say will result in any positive movement be it for her or for you.

What would you do if you KNEW she'd never change from the way she is behaving right now? I'd recommend doing that.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15