I'm with you, Barb! Today I went to church and sat in my usual spot and suddenly an arm drapes around me and she whispers good morning in my ear. After church we were going to a nursing home to sing and she asked me to join her and her gf in one of the church children's rooms for lunch...so I did. The three of us sat and had lunch at a kiddie table sitting on kiddie chairs lol. She brought me a piece of fruit for dessert. Her and her gf started peppering me with questions about my divorce, my ex gf, why white men like Filipino women...I finally said "some things are going to remain my secret for now" So, we went to the nursing home together and I arranged a ride home for the three of us afterwards. It was a nice day. I think I'll just cease and desist. She wants a friend, that's cool...it all just gets confusing. As long as I know what page we're on I'll read it.