Great analogy Zeus but kinda scary.
My kinda of detachment and GAL is rather drastic.
I lived in SE Asia from 2000 - 2010. I have more family and friends there than I have here. So my last resort would be to resin from work, leave the kids with the WAW and go there for a couple months just to GAL and get myself together. Whether she comes to her senses or not, I'm hoping to come back stronger so I can be able to move forward with whatever the situation may turn out to be.


M 30
W 31
S8 and S6
M 7 T 13
D-Day Mid December 2014
EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014

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