We ate lunch and when I dropped her off she gave me a long passionate kiss, held my hand tightly, put her head in my chest for a bit and was tearing up.
That's the worst. That kind of stuff gets me every single time. I can't put myself in those situations right now.
Next time W ask, be mysterious. Tell her you appreciate the offer. You're just really busy.
DO NOT tell her "it's too soon, painful, sad, etc.". I've made that mistake....not good.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15