Thanks for your comments and suggestions. They have been most helpful. Here's what I have so far:
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Hello W,
I'd like us to work out what time we'll each spend with the children in coming weeks. I'm missing out on their company right now, and they, mine. We need to review things, and here's my proposed plan - feel free to suggest any changes:
Monday: I won't see the kids on this day.
Tuesday: I'll pick them up from school, take them to my parent's house and have tea with them - back to yours for 6pm.
Wednesday: I won't see the kids on this day.
Thursday: I'll take the kids to school/pick them up from school, and bring them back to yours.
Friday: I'll pick them up from school and spend the night with them at my parent's house.
Saturday: I'll take D5 to ballet and spend the day with them - back to yours at dinner time.
Sunday: I won't see the kids on this day. (Over time we could do a 'family activity' on this day...I think this sounds like pursuit and would lose it.)
Whilst this is a difficult time, It's important for the kids to spend quality time with both of us. If we can agree a plan, it will hopefully benefit us all. Please could you let me know your thoughts about it this weekend. Thank you. Alpha.
Last edited by Toots; 03/21/1507:16 PM.
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