No, he has not told them. He says he's not ready to yet, so I let him sleep in our room for tonight while they're here. Not sure if that was the right thing to do or not. I'm trying to guess his thoughts and I shouldn't be, I know. Keep thinking that if he doesn't want to tell that could be good in my favor, but it could just be more of him not taking responsibility for his actions.
He told me yesterday that we should buy a car seat for our second car and that got me feeling like he's going to tell me he's moving out soon. This whole week he's been withdrawn and I actually caught myself persuing him I think. Was asking if he needed help bringing out the trash, and bringing in groceries and such. He seemed irritated that I offered and then it hit me that I was pushing him to interact with me. Detaching and DB works much better, but it's hard to remember.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out