Totally agree with Sandi,

Don't back slide. She is going to push your buttons but to get respect you need to show her through consistent action that you mean what you say.

Someone once told me the behavior we allow is the treatment we deserve.

Stay strong. Let her taste her life without you as her back up plan. You will start feeling better.

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