Thank you for your replies.
Leon01, I will try to read that thread as soon as possible.

Just one unrelated question: how does one edit his own posts?
I am trying to find an "edit" button somewhere to address Starsky309 concern and cannot find it.

Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15