I agree Sho. There seems to have been lots of pull me/push me going on. You've been keen, and your W has withdrawn, then she's super keen and so on.

I think holding a firm line on this until she is consistently 'in' is a good idea.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus