You're right Twinmom,

I am working on myself to be a better person, and the picking on my W and her parenting skills is definitely part of that. I don't mean to be defensive. I appreciate and value your comments.

You're right about a parenting plan of course.

I just wonder how I'm going to bring that about given this last weeks' events (begging/pleading/stupidly saying I'd hurt/kill myself/wife not trusting me alone with kids). I don't feel I'm in a position to just simply say I will have them on this, this, and this day. I want to step right back and give her space but I want to be there for the kids where I can.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6