Alpha - rollercoasting #3

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Does anyone who has followed my story so far have any advice on what to do regarding my children?

I want to implement LRT with my wife but I do not want to be seen to have abandoned the kids (I would never do that). So given my situation, how do I balance cutting right back interactions with W but also being available for the kids. She won't let me have them at the moment and is very restrictive over when and how I see them. I was thinking of sending a text on Sunday evening just to say something along the lines of 'if you need any assistance with the kids this week for school or looking after them, please let me know.' What do you think - good or bad idea? Any other suggestions are welcome