And she finally pops in-- cheery, and full of smiles. Just passing through to grab a few things on her way from being with OM to meeting with OM. She doesn't bat an eye at the new setup. In fact, she sincerely thanks me for moving all her stuff.
So the critical factor in what I do next depends on how effectively I can detach and stay detached. If I can successfully ignore W, and focus on my job search, then there's no reason to change anything in the near future. But if I keep experiencing these intrusive ruminating thoughts, that physically wear me out from the stress they produce, then I might as well get on with D. I have critical job-related meetings in the next two weeks which require much preparation and a strong focus. If I can't stop fixating on what could happen next with MR then I've got to eliminate the uncertainty and end it.
