Wife ready to walk away

[Miler]

Cadet, I understand what you are saying. Do you not think she is thinking about whether this can work or whether my changes are real and lasting?

Indeed, my changes are for me and the kids. It's only been a week, but I've been disconnected from work, devices, and my own head. I've been in the moment with my kids, spending quality time with them, and really connecting with them. I have been following through on my commitments as well. These changes ARE for me, and I don't ever want to go back. I am very happy with where I am...my anxiety stems from the fact that I wish the whole family (including wife) want to move forward with the changes. I'll say, I've already seen a warming in behavior from my 14 year old daughter. She wants to spend more time with me, she wants to be in the same room with me (not up in her room texting or watching Netflix). Hopefully it's not too late to right this whole ship!