Much like everyone here says to see an attorney because knowledge is power, see a financial advisor. You may not be able to complete your plan until everything is settled, but at least you will have an idea of what is available to you. I agree with Zues on this, work out a 1/3/6/12 month plan. That SHOULD help clarify things further down the road.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
