Complex, I feel you are still acting tactically rather than stragtegically.
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But what now? She's gonna file. Nothing, absolutely nothing or no one will stop her anymore.
Listen to yourself here, because this part is true: There is nothing you can do to stop her. Stop resisting. Stop trying to make a decision between S and D. That is entirely her choice - she's going to do what she's going to do.
We keep telling you that the only thing that may attract her back is an independent Complex that is getting on with his life. You have made good progress in that, but you keep wanting to show that off to her to convince her that she is making the wrong move.
Unfortunately, Complex, she has to come to that conclusion on her own, and you trying to convince her is counterproductive.
