Ouch. I don't like that. I can't wait to see the advice you get, but it sounds like you should get ready to enforce some boundaries. My approach would be to ask how things went and see if you catch her in a lie. If she lies, such as saying that he left last night, then I'd just stop her to say "We both know you're lying. I have some decisions to make." At least, that's what I heard Starsky309 saying around these boards. It would be good if he came to give you some guidance.

Another thing that I read around here is that it doesn't matter how normal the WAW acts if she's still with OM. Some even go to MC, they ML, etc. If the OM is still in the picture, it's all a front to preserve everything she wants in her life, H, family and OM.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
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D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.