Newbie needs advice and encouragement

[Barry]

Hi Kramer, Thanks for posting on my thread, I've just caught up on yours.
Sorry you find yourself here, but you're in the right place.

I'd urge you to listen to Starsky's posts in particular regarding a L.

Don't be afraid of pushing W away or pi$$ing her off. Get the best L you possibly can A.S.A.P. Time to realise that she threw your M under a bus by her actions, and now she wants to reverse over it by not being fair financially. If you weren't before, NOW you can detach properly.

Time to get your game face on.