Doing the limbo thing (thread #8)

[shodan]

Last night my W came back from work and was super engaged, saying nice things to me, doing nice things for me and then later wanted to ML. I told her that while I appreciate her efforts that I could not go through this again. She acts like she wants to work on the M, things are great for a week and then she goes distant. I told her that I need 100% commitment from her that she is working on the M, which includes NC, passwords, etc. She listened and of course said her normal "I am confused, I don't know what I want. At times I am committed to working on it. But other times the feelings are not there."