Mozza (10) + Links to success stories

[Mozza]

Thanks a lot for stopping by, T0324. It's really kind of you to wander around these boards now that you're in piecing. I look forward, if ever, to having the kind of behind-the-scene information that your H is giving you.

I completely agree with you that the A has to run its course and that anything that we do to hurt it will actually feed it. It's Romeo and Juliet, the impossible love. Them against the world, the misunderstood couple. I want to send the signal to WAW that I think this OM and the R are uninteresting. I haven't mentioned it once in six months. The parallel that I see with your sitch is that OM is 5 years younger than WAW (29 vs 34). Not quite 19, but definitely less mature than her (and me) and thrown in with two kids, an ex-H (me), issues of depression and anxiety that weren't there when they fell in love, etc.

You've been lucky with timing and basketball in your case. MWD does mention in DR that timing can play a big part. In my case, it still seems better to sit out for a while and work on myself. WAW is pumping the kids about their trip to the beach in OM's hometown in July, so she sees at least as far as this (plane tix are bought). I don't know the future anyway, so I don't really think about timing at the moment.