Goals for counseling (this is a female pro-marriage Gotten style counselor):
1) Let my wife vent in a "protective" environment
2) Validation - directly from the validation cheat sheet
3) High light what I am working on without making it seem like I am telling my wife I am changing.

Any thoughts from you guys?


Me: 44
Her: 42
T: 22, M: 20
D:18, S:16, S:11
Sep: 6 months in 2002
Sep again: March 15, 2015 (5 months)
WAW talk again: January 21, 2019