It just kills me that she will do anything to not ask me for help. This stuff was always my role in the relationship. But like she reminds me everyday there is no relationship anymore.
I know - it hurts.
It's very likely her just trying to feel like she can be 'okay' on her own. I know that isn't what you signed up for, but it's what she has convinced herself she needs.
And it's quite possible that the sooner that itch gets scratched, the sooner she begins to think with a clear head. That isn't a call to manipulate the situation, and it isn't a guarantee of behavior, but knowing that may make it easier to endure.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
