Yes, been following DR and Sandi's rules. First 2 days of separation I did not, and it was going downhill fast. Been 3-4 conflict free days since then. The tension in the house is definitely gone, but she is still icy except for the aforementioned interactions. I am scheduled to pick her up from the airport Sunday night at 9:00.
Me: 44 Her: 42 T: 22, M: 20 D:18, S:16, S:11 Sep: 6 months in 2002 Sep again: March 15, 2015 (5 months) WAW talk again: January 21, 2019