U-turn, my wife is very similar. Never talked of divorce. But the lies, secrets and double life are what I am also dealing with.
Sandi, this helps me alot! I have been thinking lately about how I would accept my wife back into the M if she approached me about it. There are several things that would have to happen and it would take some time. Lots of time I think.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"