1) she fell in love.
RAI: I don't want to find out more right now unless she tells me. I don't want to search on her smartphone or check the browser history. I can't see how that would help me. If I would find something, it would be impossible to keep it to myself. She would find out what I did and even more trust would be destroyed. At least that's what I think. Why do you think that it would be a good idea? Would it have any influence on my approach? Maybe you can explain this point a bit more. I'm thankful for any thoughts of you.


Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out