Thanks, job. I think you are spot on with the first two reasons. I know that he doesn’t have much money left, I can see his account (since we still have joint accounts hooked all together) and I know how much is in company account. I think just a thought of 15th of the month when he usually sends me the money for condo mortgage should be making him sick. I feel sorry for him, but it is not my problem, it is what he wanted.
If he would be just busy, he would not forget to pay the bills, etc. He was pretty much on top of things (with few exceptions) until now. Maybe he is deeply in love with a woman of his dreams, and completely lost his head, LOL.
The auto insurance will not be terminated. I have money to pay the entire bill. He can either pay me later, or cancel it and the money will be refunded. I’m going to give him this chance to figure things out. My guess is that he wants to drop the coverage for a few months, when both his car and truck are in Mexico. Will see if I’m right.
I think he has hit a rough spot on his journey. It feels like he is spinning in different directions. His life is probably not exactly the way he imagined. Money is probably the biggest issue. I’ve checked the CC that he was late paying. There are late fees and interest charges, as expected. But, there is also a new transaction for airline ticket. Looks like he is flying to the state where he works during the summer. He will be there for two weeks. I think he received a call about some work, and he is taking it. The ticket is very expensive (more than $600). He would not pay this kind of money before. And the weather in that state is still cold, below freezing at nights and in 40th during the day. He hates cold. Plus, he is going to miss a couple of events that he loves and attends every year (at the vacation home and here.) I guess he is desperate to get some work and make money.
Now, back to me. I’m going to the party on the boat tomorrow. I should be a lot of fun. And yes, the yard needs some major work. Not sure if I get to it this weekend thought, except for moving the grass. It needs to be done.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state