Honestly? I think this comes across as needy, controlling and smothering. I am NOT telling you to leave your own house, but I'm talking more about the words you are using and the stance you are taking. You're basically INVALIDATING everything she feels, and saying "I'm sorry you feel that way, but I love you and so I'm not letting go. I still believe in us."
To a wayward wife, that is like NAILS ON A BLACKBOARD to them. Now, you may not CARE about that, but if your goal is to still try and re-attract her, I would NOT advocate going about it this way.
