I've told her that she could ask me everything and I would be 100% honest. She only wanted to know if I have met another woman during the last month. I didn't and I told her that. The next morning she said that she would have to tell me that she fell in love.
Why are you answering her questions. I don't think you owe her any explanations right now. Also, why are you so defensive. Would you be anything less than 100% honest? What does she need to ask you right now? You don't have anything to hide, do you? Nevertheless, you also don't have to be an open book to your W.
Originally Posted By: koalada
The next morning she said that she would have to tell me that she fell in love.
I think there may be a bit of language translation issue here - so I did not understand what you wrote. Is she telling you 1) that she fell in love? or 2) that she would tell you if she fell in love?
Originally Posted By: koalada
If a friend would tell me this story, I would guess that there has to be more than just a chat with some stranger from the Internet she has no longer any contact with. Usually my wife doesn't lie. She only does it when she is really embarrassed about something she did.
I may be wrong, but I think your wife is lying to you a lot. With a little more digging - very very discretely - you should be able to find out more. It won't help you detach, but you need to know what you are dealing with. If you do find something, do not tell her or confront her. Come here first. You will need advice.
