I just read this thread. I am very curious and will read your story since the beginning.
I think it is pretty normal to be cautious at this point. There are wounds that take time to heal. Fortunately they do, and it seems that you have every good intention to let them heal.
R are complicated, but it seems that your H did repent and is showing he also wants to be a better partner. You know, we all make mistakes one way or the other, but it does not mean we can't see what is really important for us.
When we are babies, we fell a lot before we have a good balance and get the hang of one foot before the other. We are adults now, but we are always learning from our falls, don't we?
I hope and pray that your new R will be strong and true for both of you. Many folks say that if after a S and turmoil a couple get back together, it can be the beginning of a long, lasting and beautiful M.
