Trying to Follow DB & DR

[Mozza]

Interesting. Is he telling you what impact this outreach would have on your W? Does he expect her to be swayed by these talks? How would you feel if an ex-girlfriend called or met you to tell you about her changes? If she sees you want her to know about your changes, will she believe you do them for yourself and not for her?

I'll admit that I believe in the "speak with your actions" approach, but I also stick closely to the DB script. Also, my IC doesn't really give me advice to approach my WAW, as she's with OM and there's nothing really to do.