We have spoken about it on the way to the counselor. I've told her that she could ask me everything and I would be 100% honest. She only wanted to know if I have met another woman during the last month. I didn't and I told her that. The next morning she said that she would have to tell me that she fell in love.
If a friend would tell me this story, I would guess that there has to be more than just a chat with some stranger from the Internet she has no longer any contact with. Usually my wife doesn't lie. She only does it when she is really embarrassed about something she did.

Last edited by koalada; 03/20/15 05:47 PM.
Me 46
W 45
S16 D14 S10
M 20 yrs in June T22
12/14 sleeping in different rooms
01/07/15 she said she wants a separation
02/26/15 I moved out