H came home. I asked him when he was leaving today and he ignored me the first three times before saying, apparently not soon enough.
Then he asked me if it would be alright for our D if he just took his furniture and that was it. Perfect.
I asked him when he would like to sort through file cabinets and storage and he said it's your house, you don't want me here, you take care of it. I replied, it's not fair to put all that work on me. These were your decisions, your choices, your stuff, you need to take care of it.
He said something about me changing the subject when I said, 'no, you are correct, I have no desire to have you here when you do not wish to treat me well or be in this relationship."
What is going on here??? How can he possible act like the victim...oh. Wait.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
