Oh my!!! just talked to her and she is pissed! I explained to her that since she wanted separate bank accounts I went ahead and did the same. She said well I need money for some things and you spent my money last week, I explained to her that I did not that I paid joint bills, she said yeah your bills, with my money, I told her that was not true and she knows it. I told her that we were supposed to discuss this all week and she did not want to talk the last few days. She said well I am communicating with you and telling you things I will show you everything, you show me everything, I told her I didn't have to show her anything. Oh I see where this is going she says, I said well I guess I've a different opinion about that and laughed, she said oh I'm funny, you want to laugh, I said yes, because this is all highly ironic to me, you lecturing me about being honest and communicating. Well fine you laugh, you can't bother me anymore(in her most snooty and obviously bothered tone). I told her I would transfer money so she has some.
Well this may be first thing I've done to really cause her pain and she clearly did not like it one bit. I can't believe she actually thought I would continue to give her access to my money if I wasn't going to have access to hers. I suppose I've removed the first bit of cake from her mouth. Let the day be glorious! She no longer will eat from my plate, this cake is mine!
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15