I think this is a very interesting point. I also currently do a lot of looking after the children, whenever I do the WW is with the OM. I love and miss seeing my kids everyday, but perhaps if I withdrew totally she would realise that she can only continue the A with my help... The danger is she then decides to start acting desperately. Bringing him round the house etc... Arrrgggghhhh! why do I feel like every decision I have to be thinking 12 steps ahead!
I am very interested for Sandi2's input on this as well.
T:13 yrs M:11 Me: 36 Her: 33 Living apart Her having affair She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015 3 kids D13 S10 D10 D not mentioned yet
