Bright, You are a busy and popular lady these days! It's any wonder you are tired! LOL! However, I'm glad you are getting out and socializing w/others. It truly gives you something else to think about.
As for your h and paying bills. I'm not a mind reader, but he could be having some financial issues and is waiting until the drop dead date to pay the bills or he's in a depressive fog and doesn't think about paying them until the last minute or he's out there staying busy doing whatever and doesn't think about them until later. Teenagers don't always pay their bills early and my guess is that he's just sitting on them until the last minute to pay them. But, no matter what he's doing...he at least paid the credit card bill the day before it was due.
As for the vehicle insurance...if it's due soon, send him an email and remind him. You don't want to see this terminated because he's not done anything about the estimates. If the insurance is terminated, he can't drive the vehicles.
I do hope that you are able to get outside and work in your yard. Spring is here and it's time to think about outdoor activities and not just yard work. So, what do you have planned for the weekend?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.