For the Newcomer LBH who has a wayward wife Part 2

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Hi Sandi, I have a thread here in newcomers that I'd like you to take a look at the last question. My WW currently wants to come to a financial arrangement. Now I look at what you suggest about stopping paying for her cell phone etc.. I am very worried that I am being too nice and paying for her to maintain the same lifestyle. However how do I pay for that lifestyle for my children and yet restrict hers? I am concerned if I under pay her, she will just remove benefits from the children to maintain her quality of life... I know she is already doing this by spending money on petrol to visit the OM which is costing her about £200 a month.

Finally and I realise this sounds crazy, and tbh mean to the other party involved.. But how about getting another girlfriend? I only ask as it seems to me that would shock WW and get the jealously kicking in.. I have no interest in OW at the moment. I would cut off a limb to be re-united with my WW but hence I would do anything to increase the likelihood of that reunion becoming sooner!