For the Newcomer LBH who has a wayward wife Part 2

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Maybe I should have also added whether in this case of WAW having the children whether the LBH should do what he can to be there and help with kids (if wanted/allowed) or take the tougher road in the short term of stepping back altogether and seeing whether WAW struggles with the kids alone and due to LBH backing off WAW may start to seek him out. I hope I'm making sense. Myself, I would like to be there at every moment for my kids and would never abandon them, but I do feel that if I'm helping out, running around doing school drop offs etc if I'm just facilitating an easier life for WAW and not allowing space for her to 'need' me. Does what I'm saying make sense? It's tricky balancing parenting responsibilities with pulling back, particularly when pulling back leads WAW to use guilt on LBH of not helping with children to manipulate LBH to help as she chooses. How would you suggest approaching that situation? Finally, in my own case, I'm trying to implement LRT. Any suggestions on that in general and how children might impact the viability of it?