Gosh Rzr! I had to read a long way back to catch up on your sitch...

You're getting great advice here, and I'm sorry things are do difficult right now.

Just wanted to give you this....(((RZR)))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus